Pretty sure this is one of those things that is crystal clear to the people on each side of the debate and totally incomprehensible to people on the other side. So, I don't think any amount of convincing on either side will make a difference.
That said, I listen to podcasts and audiobooks more than music. In those cases, the forward and back buttons are used to skip ahead and skip back 30 seconds. As it is in the Palisade, I have to push DOWN to go FORWARD in the audio or push UP to go BACKWARD in the audio. That is unintuitive and is not what any other car I've ever driven does. I can't think of any use case when DOWN would equal FORWARD or ADVANCE.
Honestly, this is one thing I miss from my Ford cars, which used a four-way D pad for these controls. Up/Down was for volume and Left/Right was for back/forward.